Many women say to me "he wanted me to have an abortion!"
Sorry! It's just not that big a deal. Especially when the kid is 10 years old!
Many men just "freak out" when they first hear that they are going to be a dad. They have a moment of panic and fear. But once the baby is born they are a great dad.
So mom, get over it!
No court is going to "terminate his parental rights" or whatever because for 5 minutes he behaved badly!
Especially, if he's been behaving fine for the past 2 years!